Thursday, September 6, 2007

Beans, Beans, The Magical Fruit

Training is almost finished. We left Missalabugu yesterday with heavy hearts on both sides. It was delicate, also, to explain again to my host family that even though I've been living with them for 2 months and they've been helping me learn the language, cooking for me, and washing my clothes, that now I'm going to go do projects in ANOTHER village. I'm not giving anything to the village that has given me so much. I learned how to say the equivalent of 'it's not up to me' in Bambara, but I still feel a little remorse. I did get to do one little construction project just before we left: a wash area and soak pit next to one of the community wells.





A soak pit is basically a hole filled with rocks that water drains into and can then be absorbed back into the ground, rather than running all over the place. And the wash area is a small concrete pad where woman can come to wash clothes, rather than making a bunch of soapy mud in front of their houses. Even though we were pretty rushed, both came out pretty well and the village is really happy with them. We also did a sensitization session about hand washing and sanitation - a little taste of what I'll be doing a lot when I get to my village.
Then we threw a big farewell party! We bought 20 kg of beans (enough to feed the whole village) and cooked them up with tomato, onion, garlic, and lots of hot pepper. It was tasty, but the truth is that we really just wanted to get them to eat beans for the protein. See, Malians are a little bit like 3rd graders when it comes to beans... They insist that eating beans makes your fart, and farting is totally totally unthinkably rude, so they don't eat beans. They all like beans, and beans are the same price as rice, which they eat all the time, but they can't seem to get over the stigma of farting. So we told them it was "american food" and they ate it. Everybody seemed to like it, and even if they didn't, they ate it anyway and it was more much-needed protein than they normally get in a month. Ramadan started a few days ago and everyone is fasting from sunrise to sunset, so we ate the beans in the dark. And then we had a dance party to some malian music.



On a bit sadder note, my 3 year-old host-brother died last week, of malaria. It was the second infant death in the village during the 2 months we were there, the first being of malnutrition. The day of his death everyone in the village came to my house and gave blessings, men on one side women on the other. We all sat in silence for half an hour or an hour, while the elders in the village took the body to be buried. Then everyone kind-of went about the rest of their day as though nothing had happened, and it wasn't mentioned again. It was staggering. There are so many tragic realities here that could be easily avoided through education. We don't know how good we have it.


(On a happier note, yes, that IS a new yorker magazine!)

I finish up my technical training this week and then move to my site. But I've got internet all this week, and don't really know what else ya'll want to hear about... so flood the comments with questions! In the meantime, here are some nice photos I've taken:













9 comments:

Anonymous said...

If I want to send you something, can I still send it to the address you gave in the original email?

Unknown said...

i really love the photos.. beautiful! good luck when you move to your village!! -- ponti

Unknown said...

beyond the physical contributions you make, i admire your desire to instill a sustainable sense of beauty in simplicity, to awaken a dormant hope. i believe you can do it and look forward to reading more about your work. all the best. i'm looking forward to taking a job, most likely in boston. if there are small things you miss or need from the states, i'd love to help you. is there a way to send things to you at the village?

Amy A said...

I made bean soup the other day, but I probably get too much protien... It's really sad to hear about your host family. Is there any medical care in your village? Vaccinations, first aid, etc? Sad and scary...

I love you!
-Amy

Amy A said...

I made bean soup the other day, but I probably get too much protien... It's really sad to hear about your host family. Is there any medical care in your village? Vaccinations, first aid, etc? Sad and scary...

I love you!

-Amy

Monarch Motivational Seminars said...

We used to say that beans were the MUSICAL fruit. For the same reason the Malians don't like to eat them . .. not the sweetest music, but ya feel better :-)

I am so loving your posts! You are a creative and interesting writer as well as a humanitarian. I admire you more than I can say.

I think I may have asked you before, but if not, here goes. I have been cutting and pasting your news into my family web site. My sister-in-law, Jan who lives in Valparaiso, Indiana, would like to share your blog with her church.

Is that OK with you??

Take care and keep in touch. Love ya lots.

Love and prayers,
"Aunt" Linda

Monarch Motivational Seminars said...

Oh, yes. . . please let us know your address.

And if there is anything we can send you.

Is there anything Beautiful Savior Lutheran Church can send for your village?? or for you??

Love and prayers,
"Aunt" Linda

Rosemary B. Althoff said...

About the little tragedies: Little kids and death don't belong together. Come to mention it, death is NOT a part of life. So, a resurrection and a new body sounds like a really good deal.

I don't get hung up anymore about the "haven't accepted Jesus" issue. C.S. Lewis's THE LAST BATTLE helped me.

Meanwhile, I know that you are awesome. You, too, fellow bloggers.

Unknown said...

Mary,

I don't know what would be harder to deal with... the death of the young boy, or the simple changes that would have prevented it. Like you said, "tragic realities." I hope that you do not taste frustration too much. Your "American Food" tactic was clever.

On another note, your pictures are amazing! I especially like the one of the boy wearing the yellow shirt, sitting in front of the blue wall. It is also so good to see you in pictures, smiling and looking healthy. Stay healthy and happy, Mary!

Summer has ended in Cleveland, but somebody forgot to tell the weather. Besides today, it has been blue-sky days and cool breeze nights. My buddies and I are planning a fall-foiliage motorcycle trip to western NY, and I want to go visit Fallingwater and Kentuck Knob sometime in October. Also, there is the apple picking to do.

I was really glad that you called me on my birthday. I was so happy to talk to you that I realized that I was shouting into the phone. I had one of the best birthdays ever this year. Lisa really made things great. She made some delicous cup cakes (her specialty). We rode go-karts at the fastest track in Ohio. (These things really hauled!) Then we went out to one of my favorite places to eat (Southside), and ended the evening dancing at a place called "Touch" in Ohio City. We had a big crew, and it seemed like everybody had a good time. I know I did.

Okay Mary, I'm out. Much love.

-Peter